Anyway. The past few weeks have been eventful. Prior to Oct 1, I had been going through so much inner turmoil that I was sincerely thinking of admitting myself to a psych ward for the sole reason of a getaway covered by insurance. Looking back, that *should* sound crazy. It still doesn't. However, I went with this instead:
This, my friends, is CoCoCay, Bahamas. It's Royal Caribbean's private island and is now my "happy place". When I told Robert of my very serious intentions of calling a psych ward, he finally listened to my not-so-quiet cries for help and we bought very last minute tickets to go on a weekend cruise. (Last minute as in bought tickets Wednesday, left Thursday to drive to Port Canaveral, set sail Friday). It was probably THE BEST thing I've done for myself in a VERY long time.
First off, my husband listened to my cries! And didn't make a big deal about the fact that we have no money for this! For the first time in a long time, I actually felt like I meant more than money. THAT was an amazing feeling in and of itself!
Second, the weekend was about me and my husband. Do you know how long it's been since we went out together - alone - to just a simple dinner?! Vacations alone have NEVER happened! Shoot, vacations never happen! When you're a mom, and you take kids with you, it's not a vacation. It's simply moving your reality from one location to another. I needed a real vacation. And this was it. And it was wonderful!!! I snorkeled for 3 hours one day! I LOVE snorkeling!!!
Third, here I had my chance to decompress. My feelings leading up to this getaway were all over the map. Anger, frustration, sadness, depression, overwhelming stress.....okay, so it's really just one area of the map. But they were there in intense amounts and it got to be too much. This little getaway gave me the rest and perspective that I needed to come back home and manage life again.
Has it been unicorns and roses since I got home? Ha! The face that you even ask that question makes me laugh! BUT it's been easier to deal with. My batteries have been recharged and I have some reserve again. Not much, but more than I did!!!
This weekend was one that I will NEVER forget and will be forever grateful to my husband for allowing.